Oct
15
WOMEN! would you tell your best friend to continue to (date) a married man?
Filed Under Women in Music
Even if he is seeing other women. (which means she accepts her role).
The ulterior motive is for him to help her further her career.
This guy has a lot going for him. He’s a musician who is handsome, charismatic, assertive, successful.
…and he makes this woman happy (when they get together) although he’s not committed to her at all. It’s just for a good time and ***. Their is no real future for her. Even crazier thing is she is dating this engineer guy, a really nice guy and he has no idea of her dark side.
If you knew your friend was in this type of situation, would you advise your friend to continue to do something like this, what would be your reasoning?
Women I would really like to know your opinion.
she breaks up with a guy she goes back to this man. She always lets him in.
this is her last email to him.
It’s funny how life goes. Letting myself love you has been such a challenge. I’ve found every excuse to walk away. So much conflict - other peoples opinions- social norms- still my heart keeps whispers you. I know it’s crazy, but being with you this time- I feel some resolve. Like I can surrender and trust the process. I’ve tried to be with the right guys (even had a marriage proposal or two). I thought I wanted someone to love me exclusively, but every time I got that- it didn’t feel like love. It felt like ownership… and people don’t own people. There’s something so sincere about letting the bird out of the cage. Maybe they’ll come back to you. Maybe you’ll be there when they return. Looking back it seems so simple like - Why didn’t we figure this out sooner? Could it be I’m a little stubborn? I still don’t know where we are going but thats the beauty of it.
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3 Responses to “WOMEN! would you tell your best friend to continue to (date) a married man?”
NOOOO!!! Seriously, I really am against anyone dating a married man. I actually would say I’m pretty liberal in my sexual convictions. I have no problems with my friends having one night stands and sleeping around, and have encouraged and aided such behavior upon occasion. However, this aid ends when their partner is in a committed relationship. When you get involved with a married guy, you get involved with a lot of other people, (i.e. his wife and children.) I would strongly advise my girlfriends against such a relationship, particularly because the joy of a **** buddy is that it is a drama free relationship. You want someone who is as free as you are. All that baggage is bad for a casual relationship. Also, what kind of loser cheats on his wife regularly for a casual ****?
i would tell my friend not to get involved with married men. for me it ruined my life. i was always the ‘other girl’ and now that im married, im always thinking of what my husband might be doing and thinking to deep into the things he says ’cause i remmeber when the other husbands would lie to their wifes to be with me. also its just not fair to the wife(or kids,if any are involved) and the marriage.
I don’t have to read this whole thing to say NO, no dating a married man for any reason. It insults her intelligence.