feeling inferior asked:


so, im 32 years old, im a little over weight but i can look at women and say ‘im cute arent i’ and they will smile and bat thier eyes and say ‘you are adorable.’ i have been told by almost every woman i have been with that im an amazing f**k because of my level of passion and stamina. i am a working musician. i drive a decent car. my problem is talking to women, i just freeze up and get real down on myself. i start running through my list of flaws. i recently lost 85 lbs so i have some stretched skin on my belly and i have fibromyalgia. i remember that money has been an issue in every relationship i have been in. i have massive nerve damage which makes it really hard to work. im really only good for cooking and a f**k. im really into women who are really into me enough to approach me. i like to know that the person im with actually wants me. i feel like if i walk to a woman i might get a half hearted response or a rejection or a phone number that rings with no answer.

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5 Responses to “why cant i get a date? how do i get women?”

  1. Ben Taft on May 16th, 2008 11:06 am

    Just find hobbies you like that involve woman! The best thing to do is talk to them the more yo do that the better you get.

  2. Satchmo on May 19th, 2008 4:07 pm

    Try using a dating website, man. You might be able to find women who are right up your alley in terms of what you want out of a girl.

  3. Dexter555 on May 21st, 2008 3:12 am

    Get a book on selling. You sell the positives of your product [in this case, you] first. Don’t get into defects until much, much later, after they’ve bought the positives. And you need to acknowledge far more positives, or spin it in a much more positive way. I’m a musician who loves to cook and I’m amazing in the sack is much more appealing than, Basically I’m only good for cooking and f**king

  4. douglas c on May 23rd, 2008 12:12 am

    I am 32 and here is the truth. Many people will look down on this ritual but when I was in my 20s and lonely and ***** I would go out to a bar. With friends. Hang out get a buzz on and get ****** drunk. real drunk. Then I would take them home and try to bang them. Sometimes yes. sometimes no. SOmetimes a little of both.
    Also, hang in the bar until closing and find the last ***** standing. She is there for a reason : SHE WANTS TO GET STUFFED.
    It may or may not help you get a girlfriend. If it doesn’t then at least you are getting laid. Remember………Ugly ****** and fat ****** need loving too!
    Alcohal+Chicks+Late Nights=Bagging Chicks

  5. Jack R on May 25th, 2008 11:40 pm

    ITS CUS YOU SMELL AND YOU ARE UGLY GET FIT AND LOSE WEIGHT