niknukjimmy asked:


I am a male human being attempting to understand women better because I may be a flirt, but I would never cheat if that was the arrangement. But I am accussed of being the **** I am not! Why? Because I am a musician and, the stereo-typical spin is the norm. Thanks for your help.

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16 Responses to “I think women get truth from feelings, where men get feelings from truth. Please, only female input?”

1. nacole2690 on October 14th, 2008 5:53 pm

   well maybe you should get a lady and prove everybody wrong then you wont have the rep anymore

2. *Falon* on October 16th, 2008 9:17 pm

   It might have something to do with the stereo-type….Otherwise maybe you just flirt too much and make whoever you’re dating at the time feel inferior to the females you are showering the attention on….Don’t like the stereo-type then stop portraying yourself in like manner

3. MissViolence on October 20th, 2008 1:36 am

   because women get jealous and have complexes…if its a new relationship the trust will build and it will go away….but if its an older relationship then ditch her and find someone that will trust you for who you are..there are women like that….your talking to one!

4. brooke221983 on October 21st, 2008 6:05 pm

   cause most women are insucure you need yourself a stron secure girl . you sound like my type of guy I flirt all the time and I need a man that can handle that

5. Morrowynd on October 25th, 2008 2:35 am

   You want to really understand us better? Don’t generalize. Nothing is true of all women. We have been conditioned to think with our hearts which is bull. I am a realist who goes by actual fact, not emotional intuition.

   If you want your woman to be more honest about her wants then hold her to her word. If she balks and says you should know what she means then tell her she had better say what she means or live with what she says.

   What is ****? Use an asterisk for the vowel and the word will display better.

6. daisy on October 27th, 2008 5:08 pm

   just cause your accused doesn’t make it true. and it is part of the rock and roll theory. if you leave it as flirt you know and maybe you got to have someone that can roll with it. girls run on emtion guys on facts and figures

7. KeDa on October 27th, 2008 7:56 pm

   you should just be yoursef and give a babys *** what everyone else thinks of u

8. kjcdbh420 on October 29th, 2008 2:26 pm

   i agree the best way is to have a girl and show her u r not like that.

   i also agree with u women do tend to base truth based on the feelings but in most cases a women is smart to have te feelings she has! if she sees something there then in most cases its there maybe not to the leval shes making it out to be but in someway she is right

9. sweetc on October 30th, 2008 8:36 am

   I believe tha more honest women are wit men tha more interested tha men are.Men do have a tendency to be attracted to tha woman who are real.We were made emotional so yes in my opinion;men do get more feelings tha more honest women are.

10. sweet_child21 on November 1st, 2008 9:31 am

    First do you have a reputation? if not it woman out there hating on you that all you are going to experience that alot. But if you do have a have bad ruptation try cleaning it up so woman can that you not what you are accussed of.

11. slappingfox on November 4th, 2008 12:53 pm

    I think you may be confused? Every female is different,just like her truth. We all have feelings about everything,so your question reeks of immaturity to me. If you flirt alot then you can expect this to happen. I flirt,but only with guys I know that don’t expect it to go anywhere. I think truth is truth,whether people know it’s the truth or not,and feelings are feelings. We all feel!!!! It’s called,Being Alive !!!

12. bbsweets_77 on November 6th, 2008 1:11 am

    very true. Most men once really realizing what is the truth will feel good, bad, or whatever over it. Where women do feel first. You are pretty smart for a guy. Why don’t you write a book on it?? You can call it: The truth behind men and womens feelings!

13. carlaerickson on November 7th, 2008 1:01 am

    you might be dating jealous girls. maybe try to go on a date with someone who’s not in your music scene and see how they view you. you never know, it might be different and refreshing.

    as for me getting truth from feelings, I’m fighting a stereotype myself! i always fight my feelings because they often try to impersonate my heart. i welcome feelings from truth. my ex got his truth from his feelings and that’s why we are not together anymore:(

14. dappersmom on November 8th, 2008 5:51 pm

    I think what a woman would want is for you not to be a flirt. And on the truth thing I think you have to consider whose truth? People define things differently therefore not everyones truth is the same. For example, love - how do you define it how does she? cheating - your definitions of that may be very different too. I thinki many men are likely to say anything short of *********** is NOT cheating, women will have very different answers. Fear is probably playing a part in it too, maybe something in her is saying this is not the right man to have faith in but she is trying to anyway creating a little internal war, she is afraid of getting hurt, afraid she has invested more in you than you have in her and when she sees you flirting for her it is confirmation. If you care about her and you know your flirting hurts her why would you continue to do it? Sounds like you both need to make some decisions.

15. leahazgrl on November 9th, 2008 6:14 am

    i dont understand what you are asking

16. Chris on November 12th, 2008 4:48 pm

    Here is a bit of info passed to me from some older family and friends……they say that women have that extra sense to know what is the truth and what is not. Who knows, but me personally I have found that if I really pay attention and try not to just jump to conclusions but really tune into the feelings I get from someone, it does work. But this is just things I have heard and my opinion.