Women only - my wife’s stress?

yaktur asked:


She’s very stressed about things but one I feel that stresses her out is that besides my day job, I’m looking to find some extra work in my other profession (musician) where I can earn a few extra $$ for the family.

I know she feels guilty because she has encountered so much difficulty to find a job of her own (she is born deaf), also I fear she is worried that other women will try to come on to me.

I continually try to reassure her that I would never let any other woman in my heart - my wife is my beloved, my soul’s treasure - and I want only to make sure my beloved has enough money to remain happy and content.

How shall I calm her fears and her heart? I worry for her.
I do earn good money in my day job - I work as an electronic engineer - but the utilities + the kids needs are very expensive.

She struggles to find a job. She doesn’t qualify for disability benefits. And the stress is wearing her thin.

I tell her every day I love her and I want only her, but she has her fears, and no words seem to be able to calm her at times.
Just FYI: As a musician, I’ve seen the trashy side of women come out during shows……that’s just NOT MY style, never has been and never will be.

I’m in music because I have the skill, the talent and the love of music for it’s own sake.
Her education is just high school, grade 12 graduate. She desires to learn more but educational opportunities for the deaf are hard to find.

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