Jan
12
Women only - my wife’s stress?
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She’s very stressed about things but one I feel that stresses her out is that besides my day job, I’m looking to find some extra work in my other profession (musician) where I can earn a few extra $$ for the family.
I know she feels guilty because she has encountered so much difficulty to find a job of her own (she is born deaf), also I fear she is worried that other women will try to come on to me.
I continually try to reassure her that I would never let any other woman in my heart - my wife is my beloved, my soul’s treasure - and I want only to make sure my beloved has enough money to remain happy and content.
How shall I calm her fears and her heart? I worry for her.
I do earn good money in my day job - I work as an electronic engineer - but the utilities + the kids needs are very expensive.
She struggles to find a job. She doesn’t qualify for disability benefits. And the stress is wearing her thin.
I tell her every day I love her and I want only her, but she has her fears, and no words seem to be able to calm her at times.
Just FYI: As a musician, I’ve seen the trashy side of women come out during shows……that’s just NOT MY style, never has been and never will be.
I’m in music because I have the skill, the talent and the love of music for it’s own sake.
Her education is just high school, grade 12 graduate. She desires to learn more but educational opportunities for the deaf are hard to find.
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Dec
27
women and album covers?
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Why is it that when ever a woman comes out with an album the majority of the time the album cover is just her looking like a ***** or something. why can’t they be creative instead of jumping in a bed almost **** touching themselves to make the album cover. i mean i don’t have a problem with this as far as yes they are hot but i just wish they would be less lazy and actually make real album art and not just jump in the sac *****. not all women do this and some men have them selves on album covers but it seems most common among women and almost all the time(i’m a musician and i make all my album art through alot of hard work).
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Dec
17
You can answer to the general question only or read the whole thing and give me a more direct answer to me (obviously, but I wanna emphasize on that).
Do you think Im boring? be harsh if you have to.
I think I am… let’s say beautiful(not too damn handsome, but Im alright..I could find a better word) hahaha, but not interesting enough, nor sexy, hot, or perhaps not enough *** appeal( fashion, the hairstyle, the six pack, **** voice, outgoing, updated) Ok now, Im good looking but not interesting.
I didnt want to post this, but whatever, people dont even know me
do you think it’s terrible having long curly hair in a tail (WTF)? what about being shy but more than shy I think it’s lacking interest in many topics, well shy as well. I take a while to become a friend unless the other party’s initiative. what if I am not much of a trivial talker, Im described as quiet for the most part. I can be not too expressive, hard time showing my loving heart(hahaha), careless, laid-back, apathetic regarding politics and social issues, money and fashion. open-minded and honest with any topic, and respectful. Funny and joyfully crazy when Im comfortable with people. When I talk I usually talk with lot of sarcasm. I usually have enjoyment (I do enjoy part of my life) as a priority. I dislike modern music(especially Hip-hop) and like jazz fusion, I am a MUSICIAN (drummer, play piano) who lives for the music, currently doing my Music Major. People consider me smart/intelligent, im also really lazy when it comes to unnecessary stuff in school and life, Im probably not wise or experienced with many things in life like most young people (wisdom and intelligence is not the same thing, might be even opposites) but im conscious of that somehow, so I try to be wise. used to play sports, still like them, would play depends on who asks me to… I go to the gym though. Not much into parties and drinking, dancing (the type that is not art). I dont watch TV but do like good movies, those that have something to offer such a good moral, and deep meaningful themes, those that are well made and still belong in the art of cinema… And I dont play video games. Im latino, btw. I enjoy being in my own as well, I like reading, psychology, history, cultures, all sort of Art, I like Artsy stuff and admire beauty, including women’s beauty(not hoe-ty), romance(sounds gay, but im far from being gay). I like observation and analysis. I have discipline when interested and im pretty self taught in everything. I dislike showing off, dislike show offs, I do show off but sort of unconsciously, I keep thinking not to show off, I dont people think that im a show off (Wow, big deal). Im christian but it mostly applies to my family, I have my strong doubts, Im looking for a better ‘truth’, path, I wanna be one with the universe. WIth the way I write you can probably tell what kind of person I am. Am I boring? (thats the purpose of this) Im trying to look more into myself, solve my mental issues (those we all have, nothing too big or perhaps quite big, hahaha) to be myself completely and a better person. I have Trustworthy friends and go out with them, but I dont depend much on others, I dont have a true best friend within those. ( if we all think about is hard to have true best friends). Im not ready to have another relationship yet, but Im curious to know what you answer
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Dec
12
OK LADY’S.PREFERABLY WOMEN!?
Filed Under Women in Music | 6 Comments
OK GUY’S EASY! BACK OFF! AND NO ONE WILL GET HURT! JUST JOKING…. FIRST- OFF I’M 52 YOA. DON’T APPEAR LIKE, I KNOW YOUR SAYING, THEY ALL SAY THAT,BUT HONESTLY I DON’T. I’M A SINGLE W/M FOR 20 MO’S AND DON’T KNOW HOW TO GET BACK TO CIRCUIT AGAIN… GOOD LOOKING, SHOULDER LENGTH HAIR FROM MY MUSICIAN DAY’S, YES STILL FULL ON TOP! GREAT PERSONALITY, FUNNY LOVE TO LAUGH, AND SPOIL MY WOMEN AS I AM NOW WORKING A NEW JOB! SORRY,BUT IT’S IN OK. I’M FROM CA. CAME HER TO START OVER. DOE’S THIS SOUND LIKE AN ADD???
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Dec
9
Why are they? I understand you would want the male donor to have good genes with little history of medical problems and things like that. But I mean women also make their decision on whether the donor was a talented athlete or singer or musician or even a great thinker. But isn’t this absurd? I mean if you got Russel Crow’s sperm, does this mean your child will be a great actor? Or Elvis Presley’s sperm, would that make your child a great singer? Or even Albert Einstein’s sperm, would that make your child one of the most brilliant people to ever exist? And so on etc.
Because I think that these people are very good at what they do because they tried very hard in life to get their talents. I mean some people might be born with a nice voice but it is nowhere as perfect as it would have been without any practice and effort.
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Nov
6
Why are women so uptight and closed? ?
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Im a musician so i love people … cuz i sing to them lol but now im wondering how do you make freinds with women ? wihtout comming off as if your trying to hit on them/? hmmmmm
Im a musician so i love people … cuz i sing to them lol but now im wondering how do you make freinds with women ? wihtout comming off as if your trying to hit on them/ now it might sound like i am generalizng but actualy i think its great that women are they way they are but what can one guy to to be freindly wiht a women .. wihtout being wierd or too agressive ????
Im a musician so i love people … cuz i sing to them lol but now im wondering how do you make freinds with women ? wihtout comming off as if your trying to hit on them/ now it might sound like i am generalizng but actualy i think its great that women are they way they are but what can one guy to to be freindly wiht a women .. wihtout being wierd or too agressive ???? i may not be comming out right here with this questions and well its my frist so be gentle …. currently i am single and well experiance in makign freind well m not an expert but women is always the hard one … its alwasy a good idea to make freind with a girl before asking them out i knwo that one but …. how exactly do one just bump into agirl and come up wiht a line to make the girl a life time freind????
ok so i hear muscians have a bad rap hmm and well yes im not great in writting as you can see my strong point would be music …
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Nov
2
Why do women whom had abusive paths fall in love with toxic men?
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These men are manipulative and unfaithful, but the woman accepts this behavior rather than be in a healthy relationship.
I was dating this woman for some time and she told me about her past which didn’t bother me at all, in fact I thought it would build trust and love for each other. I couldn’t be so wrong.
We’ve been friends for a decade and knew her cycle with men - I believe she seeks father figures for a man but its the father figure who sexually and mentally abused her so I never tried to control her.
when we got together, I gave her all the respect in the world would do anything for her but I’m stern with her so she wouldn’t roll over me. it seemed she’d try to test me all the time, testing my threshold of b.s.-she tested my patience, my dependability, and manhood all the time. meanwhile, I would get this feeling shes still hung up over this musician guy she dated before me that is married, sleeps around with women, and manipulates her to do things she wouldn’t normally do. She claims they love each other. ok? so we have an argument about money and I yelled at her because she felt that i’m her boyfriend and I obligated to help her out. It felt like she was trying to hustle me I didn’t fall for it. Well she breaks up with me and goes back to her other guy. She accepts her roll that she’s #2 and is happy with it. I never treated her wrong even when we were just friends. i’ve always been there for her yet she wants to treat me like a trick on the street. She’s such a narcissistic sociopath that self defeats everything in her life. Why is she like this? I feel like captain save-a-hoe. Is there and explanation?
Why is it always the musicians…
I’m not perfect but I’m a good and honest man.
what more would she want. Nothing is enough with her.
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Nov
1
The movie is about musicians who are forced to play music for *****. They survive because they were kept alive and fed to play music. The main character was a woman. They were kept alive almost until the end. I think the title was something about music stopping or ending, but I’m not sure. Please help, I loved this movie but I can’t remember what it was called.
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Oct
29
Are rappers musicians or people who are good at tongue twisters?
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I like some raps and sometimes the little bit of music/singing in them are good but most of them sound the same just people talking fast about being tough, drugs, a thug/pimp’s life and money and women with lots of swearing and grunts.
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Oct
28
*im not asking this question in a sexiest way!
i’m wondering what things girls/women are good at.
like, guys are more musically talented (no argument here! so many more well-known male musicians than female when they equally get the same opportunity now days). (i guess the argument that you can make here is that male are most musicially ‘interested’ than female…… but i dunno, i honestly think we equally enjoy music). BUT thats not the point, this is just an example!
now dont tell me things like, women are more patient or quite, as i wont say guys are funnier, and more athetic. NOT saying they are false or true but those are characteristics. i want to know specific activies that girls/women are good at.
again, i truly dont mean this question in a sexiest way.
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